few days ago i read a book. 'he is just not that into you', if im not mistaken. well, though it sound rude and impolite, but 90 percent of it sound really true..and it kinda reminds me of something..girls are too easy to be bullied eh? girls are weak eh? maybe we are..and yes, of course we are, I am..anyway, I hope this could make a difference..girls..just..don't be too afraid to make things right..some guys out there are Jerk! you make your life..choose the right one ^^
-oh sure,they say they are busy. They say they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just THAT crazy. Bullshit. With the advent of cell phone and speed dialing, it is almost not possible not to call you.
-If I were into you, you will be bright spot of my horribly busy day. Which would be a day which I would never be too busy to call you.
-The word 'busy' is the Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find a man who didn't care to call. Remember. Men are never too busy to get what they want.
-Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they are going to do.
-If he creates expectation for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do the the same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he is okay with disappointing you.
-'Busy' is another word for 'asshole'. 'Asshole' is another word for the guy you are dating.
-I know. Every two weeks, once a month, seeing someone, having a little love and affection may help you get through the day or the week or the month-but will it help you get through a lifetime?
-Bad boys are actually bad.
-If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he is inebriated, it ain't love-it is sport.
-Some cheaters might give you some excuse, some might not have one at all, some might even blame you. No one can tell you exactly what to do when faced with this complicated and painful situation. But the bottom line is, is this what you had hoped for in a relationship?
-It doesn't count unless he says it when he is a sober. An 'i love you' while under the influence of anything stronger than grape juice wont hold up in court or in life.
-One hundred percent of man polled said they have never vomited in the bed on a women they were really into.
-Sometimes life is incredibly difficult and painful. If you are looking for a partner to share your life with, its better to pick someone who is able to meet it headlong with his full faculties.
-Cheating gets easier every time it is done. It is only hard for the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the feel of betraying someone's trust.
-Cheaters never prosper. (Because they suck)
-One hundred percent of man polled said that they have never accidentally slept with anyone. (But many of them wanted to know how this accident could happen, and how they can get involved in such an accident.)
-There is no excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating.
-Cheaters are people who have a lot of stuff to work out. And they are working it out on your time and with your heart.
-Let's call cheating what it is: a complete betrayal of trust.
-If something is wrong in a relationship, here is a bright, mature idea: Talk about it. Don't let any man blame you for his infidelity, ever.
-Cheating is bad. Not knowing why you cheated is even worse. If one red flag isn't enough for you,how about two? Don't date with any man who doesn't know why he does things.
-Do all his apologies count for something? Well, you can choose to believe he is sorry. You can choose to believe he will change. But in my book, lying, cheating or hiding is the exact opposite behavior of a man who's really into you.
-And in case he tells you that it just 'happened', please remember, cheating doesn't just 'happen'. It is not an accident as in, 'Oops, I just slipped and fell into a sexual relationship with someone else.' It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that i might end your relationship.
-People ell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, you should believe him.
-Twenty out of the twenty men polled said, without hesitation, that they have never been really into a woman who they didn't want to have sex with.
-Learn it, live it, like it, love it: If a man likes you, he is going to want to have sex with you. Sure, things may slow down in a long relationship, but even then, its a joy, a gift, and your right to have a fantastic sex life.
